Ruzy's Narrative

Are You Unable to Forgive Someone Years Later?

January 14, 2022 No Comments

Every once in a while, I have someone tell me that there was this one book, movie, or talk that changed their life. I could never relate. I would read the same book or watch the same movie they recommended and often come out liking the booking or movie, but not immediately transformed as they did. I’ve noticed that while reading or watching life-changing content, oftentimes never leaves the impact it should have on us. Perhaps because we never linger on the content.

Lifestyle, Therapy

Redefine Your Motivation by Living With Intention

December 25, 2021 No Comments

picture of a couple having dinner through a blurry window

Covid has seemed to have matchmade the whole universe during quarantine except for me. Perhaps it was just those in my social circle. Whatever it was, it was apparent.

I was at a point in my life where I was content and didn’t seem to find the need to have a partner. 95% percent of the time, I was happy single. But I wouldn’t be human if there wasn’t that 5% where I felt a subconscious pressure to find someone because everyone around me had found ‘the one.’ I succumbed to that pressure last night when I found myself going on a date, wanting to feel that connection everyone has seemed to have discovered. Early spoiler, I didn’t feel that connection as usual. However, I did find something else.

Lifestyle, Therapy

Do you lack self-discipline? – Discover which Ego drives you

December 18, 2021 No Comments

For years I’ve wondered why I lack motivation. Whether it’s to wake up to go to work, to attend my classes when I was in college, or to even pursue my hobbies. I kept thinking that something was wrong with me as I had no motivation to even go through my day. Was I just lazy?

Lifestyle, Therapy

How To Be Okay With Your Own Timeline

December 17, 2021 No Comments

It’s hard to feel grounded these days as we see constant snippets in social media where young adults have become successful entrepreneurs or have made it after leaving the traditional path of getting a job. They pursued their passion on youTube or even Tick Tock. We have become surrounded by these narratives created by influencers, where they have essentially reached their peak with their healthy routines and lifestyles. The one that still scares me is how they enjoy waking up at the crack of dawn.